Do you ever feel unappreciated regardless of what you do to make someone happy, do you often feel pressured into do something you know you have to do but because your busy sorting other things out, you haven’t got round to doing.

I have always been born a homemaker and I have had no work through no fault of my own. So because our house has been left in halfway stages of DIY for four years decided I had to take action and finish jobs that otherwise would never get done for a further four years if not more. I have spent up to ten hours a day either painting ceilings, fitting doors and handles filling holes and gaps or wallpapering for the past week and yet I feel that my actions go unappreciated as he comes home criticizing. The only things I haven’t tackled are the hole in the bedroom ceiling ( the leak in the roof needs fixing first) and connecting the spotlights in the kitchen, I won’t dabble with electricity so that will have to wait till my fella finally gets round to it, talking of kitchens we fitted a kitchen 2 years ago and it still isn’t finished, units need fixing properly, tiling needs to be done, it probably would have been cheaper and quicker in the long run if we had a professional fit it. Despite my busy decorating filled hours I am maintaining my home in the usual manner, laundry, ironing,and general housework and yet my fiancé comes home( while I’m still working hard to sort the home)and demands that i look for a job, I understand that I have to get a job to pay for the home that I am building but it disheartens me when he comes home after eight hours sitting on his arse at the office while I’m here grafting to get our home nice.

Perhaps I’m being a bit tetchy, and having a bad bout of the PMTs but it doesn’t help matters much.

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